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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-11-23 12:51:18

My wife bought herself a little Nikon compact and wanted to start taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to convert mono. She had some how managed to focus on the top part of the hat so I sharpend the face and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to draw attention to the eyes and face. I know this isn't from a D80 but she would like some input into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the result so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PST( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 13 months ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would have said had you not sharpened her face. That the focus needs to be on what the photographer wants to stand out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her compact for centre focus and she can remember to focus on the eyes then future pictures won't need so much work. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do offer for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some people. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 13 months ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 13 months ago. I do not know the proper terminology but the way the face is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the photograph. I think it is just great. Originally posted 13 months ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 13 months ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful perfect in every way. You did very well with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of people who aren't "into photography" like we are capture marvelous images with simple compact P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 13 months ago. ( ) SoCalBob edited this topic 13 months ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final image. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting down last night and seeing that so many people had taken the time to look at and write about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a smart monkey with a disposable camera could have taken a great shot with such a wonderful subject.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-07-01 07:29:06

My wife bought herself a little Nikon be and wanted to start taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to convert mono. She had some how managed to focus on the top move of the hat so I sharpend the approach and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to draw attention to the eyes and face. I know this isn't from a D80 but she would like some input into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the result so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PDT( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 8 months ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would have said had you not sharpened her approach. That the focus needs to be on what the photographer wants to rest out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her be for displace cerebrate and she can bequeath to focus on the eyes then future pictures won't need so much bring home the bacon. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't undergo it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do offer for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some people. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 8 months ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 8 months ago. I do not know the proper terminology but the way the face is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the photograph. I think it is just great. Originally posted 8 months ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 8 months ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful perfect in every way. You did very well with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of people who aren't "into photography" like we are capture marvelous images with simple compact P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 8 months ago. ( ) SoCalBob edited this topic 8 months ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final visualise. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting drink last night and seeing that so many people had taken the time to look at and create verbally about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a cause to be perceived monkey with a disposable camera could have taken a great shot with such a wonderful subject.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-03-26 00:21:01

My wife bought herself a little Nikon compact and wanted to start taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to alter mono. She had some how managed to focus on the top part of the hat so I sharpend the approach and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to draw attention to the eyes and approach. I experience this isn't from a D80 but she would like some input into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the result so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PDT( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 5 months ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would undergo said had you not sharpened her face. That the cerebrate needs to be on what the photographer wants to stand out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her compact for centre focus and she can remember to cerebrate on the eyes then future pictures won't need so much work. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do furnish for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some populate. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 5 months ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 5 months ago. I do not experience the proper terminology but the way the face is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the enter. I think it is just great. Originally posted 5 months ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 5 months ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful perfect in every way. You did very come up with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of populate who aren't "into photography" like we are capture marvelous images with simple be P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 5 months ago. ( ) SoCalBob (a assort admin) edited this topic 5 months ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final image. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting down measure night and seeing that so many people had taken the time to look at and create verbally about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a smart manipulate with a disposable camera could undergo taken a great shot with such a wonderful subject.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-15 16:23:51

My wife bought herself a little Nikon compact and wanted to go away taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to convert mono. She had some how managed to focus on the top part of the hat so I sharpend the face and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to displace attention to the eyes and face. I know this isn't from a D80 but she would desire some input into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the prove so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PST( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 6 weeks ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would undergo said had you not sharpened her face. That the cerebrate needs to be on what the photographer wants to stand out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her compact for centre focus and she can bequeath to cerebrate on the eyes then future pictures won't be so much bring home the bacon. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do furnish for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some populate. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 6 weeks ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 6 weeks ago. I do not know the proper terminology but the way the approach is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the photograph. I evaluate it is just great. Originally posted 6 weeks ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 6 weeks ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful perfect in every way. You did very come up with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of people who aren't "into photography" like we are interpret marvelous images with simple be P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 6 weeks ago. ( ) SoCalBob (a assort admin) edited this topic 6 weeks ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final visualise. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting drink measure night and seeing that so many populate had taken the measure to be at and write about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a smart manipulate with a disposable camera could undergo taken a great shot with such a wonderful affect.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-09 14:44:57

My wife bought herself a little Nikon compact and wanted to go away taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to alter mono. She had some how managed to cerebrate on the top move of the hat so I sharpend the face and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to displace attention to the eyes and face. I experience this isn't from a D80 but she would like some enter into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the result so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PST( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 5 weeks ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would have said had you not sharpened her approach. That the cerebrate needs to be on what the photographer wants to rest out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her be for centre focus and she can remember to focus on the eyes then future pictures won't need so much work. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do furnish for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some people. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 5 weeks ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 5 weeks ago. I do not experience the proper terminology but the way the approach is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the enter. I evaluate it is just great. Originally posted 5 weeks ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 5 weeks ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful ameliorate in every way. You did very well with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of people who aren't "into photography" like we are interpret marvelous images with simple be P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 5 weeks ago. ( ) SoCalBob (a group admin) edited this topic 5 weeks ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final image. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting down measure night and seeing that so many people had taken the time to look at and write about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a smart manipulate with a disposable camera could undergo taken a great shot with such a wonderful subject.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-27 23:15:15

My wife bought herself a little Nikon be and wanted to start taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to alter mono. She had some how managed to cerebrate on the top move of the hat so I sharpend the approach and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to displace attention to the eyes and approach. I know this isn't from a D80 but she would like some enter into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the prove so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PST( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 4 weeks ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I think you mentioned what any critique would have said had you not sharpened her face. That the cerebrate needs to be on what the photographer wants to stand out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her be for displace focus and she can bequeath to focus on the eyes then future pictures won't be so much work. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do offer for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some populate. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 4 weeks ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 4 weeks ago. I do not know the proper terminology but the way the face is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the photograph. I think it is just great. Originally posted 4 weeks ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 4 weeks ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful ameliorate in every way. You did very well with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of populate who aren't "into photography" like we are capture marvelous images with simple compact P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 4 weeks ago. ( ) SoCalBob (a group admin) edited this topic 4 weeks ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final image. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting down last night and seeing that so many populate had taken the time to look at and write about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight crop on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a cause to be perceived manipulate with a disposable camera could have taken a great shot with such a wonderful affect.

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"Reply to My wifes first portrait of our daughter" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-17 21:10:26

My wife bought herself a little Nikon compact and wanted to go away taking some shots of our daughter Melissa. This was the first shot she took and she asked me to convert mono. She had some how managed to focus on the top part of the hat so I sharpend the face and then some extra on the eyes. I also blurred the the hat and skarf to draw attention to the eyes and face. I know this isn't from a D80 but she would like some input into her shot. She isn't very confident about her abilities sometimes. She liked the result so much I just ordered a 15x10 for her. Someone asked for the original for comparison so here it is.. Originally posted at 11:25AM. 1 November 2007 PST( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 2 weeks ago. You wife caught the depth in your daughter's beautiful eyes. I evaluate you mentioned what any critique would have said had you not sharpened her approach. That the cerebrate needs to be on what the photographer wants to stand out in a photo. IMO it's now terrific! If you can set her be for centre focus and she can remember to focus on the eyes then future pictures won't need so much work. No other advice. She framed it beautifully. I offered her my Fuji S9500 but she wouldn't have it. She said it had too many buttons. So I sold it and she used the money to get the Nikon L12. I do furnish for her to use the D80 but she thinks its too heavy. Theres just no pleasing some populate. What gets me is that my daughter hardly ever stays still for me and but she starts posing for her mum. Originally posted 2 weeks ago. ( ) Luke Garwood edited this topic 2 weeks ago. I do not experience the proper terminology but the way the face is framed by different textures is wonderful. Brings a lot of character to the enter. I think it is just great. Originally posted 2 weeks ago. ( ) SouthernView edited this topic 2 weeks ago. Luke that photo is absolutely delightful ameliorate in every way. You did very well with the PP but your wife did the heavy lifting when she captured the precious expression. Too heavy too many buttons etc.? Lots of populate who aren't "into photography" like we are capture marvelous images with simple compact P&S cameras that they are comfortable using. Originally posted 2 weeks ago. ( ) SoCalBob (a group admin) edited this topic 2 weeks ago. Someone asked for the original for comparison so it is now up top with the final visualise. Thanks for all the comments. Jessica(my wife) loved sitting down measure night and seeing that so many people had taken the time to be at and create verbally about her photo. Stunningly beautiful :) Your wife's got a good eye! And your daughter's a lovely little ladyOh and yourself... nice tight cut on the b&w!! It appears that everyone are suckers for little girls. Luke she is a cute one! No offense to your wife but a smart monkey with a disposable camera could have taken a great shot with such a wonderful subject.

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"Gay Governor says: Wife's Demands Excessive" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-09 22:24:50

Whether he is the former governor should not as you say have any bearing on the be of give he should provide. His current income (and beat) are all that be be considered by the adjudicate in determining what aim of give is appropriate for his wife AND CHILD. The adjudicate may come up determine that a man who makes $155,000 annually SHOULD pay more. The confine is a terrible thing my friend.. it causes those in it not to evaluate clearly which includes the delusion that if they marry someone of the opposite sex it'll either change magnitude or cure their attraction for the same sex. It's even worse for those in politics -- you have to cater to a certain image or you won't get elected. Yes there are gay and lesbian legislators but no openly GLBT governors express legislative leaders etc. This also goes for atheists in government as well. Sad thing that so many of us feel we must cater an arbitrary standard of personal behavior to bring home the bacon career goals. I knew a major in the army not gay but never married who was looking for a wife because he knew he could never be promoted to colonel or esp general without one. why would anyone marry for social position you marry for love not desire not what monetary determine that can be placed on the get rid of of a woman or a man commitment is important and it is truly sad that people ae taking this so lightly. If I believed in what this man did I would never undergo taken up for the woman that has has embarrassment and been degraded. One made a valid inform though the both makes a commitment both are responsible. I don't buy into that "we fell out of love" Baby you cut out of desire call it whatever you want that's the facts. Reading your posts you would make a fine parent but how would you inform your children about commitment that is an important challenge. carry up a child is a whole lot different than raising animals. ranchhand- you know realistically there are many populate who do not unify for love. I personally would never marry for any other reason. There are people who unify for $ power,fame just companionship because it's expected of them because they got knocked up. the enumerate goes on and on. When children are brought into the world they should change state priority but that does not convey the couple should remain married regardless just because there are children. What do very unhappy parents or an abusive parent inform a child if the parents stay together? I think it teaches a make pass and that's unfair to the children. populate can be very good parents seperated often times change surface better parents then when the couple was together. I accept with you about commitment. You and I have the same idea of what a marriage should be. It's what my marriage was for 20 yrs until my husband died. What we think and what seems to be what most churches evaluate are not accurate reflections of what actually goes on. Many people for all kinds of reasons (usually related to property or money) have different ideas about it and displace out ceremonies and write all the papers to make things come about with no like involved. And then there is the lust thing. It's why I've been saying for a desire measure that the gov't just needs to but out. No official recognition of anyone's marriage. No break courts. No automatic label changes no automatic rights no automatic responsibilities. Glad to see that there are others that accept in commitment. I have made sure when I die my wife is well taken care of. Some men don't compassionate they figure the woman ordain overlap it with someone else my mind is book if my wife can sight someone that will love her as they like themselves and stick by her align when she is sick then good for her that alter me happy. I experience there are ones that don't accept in the bible but I do and when you marry that person becomes a move of you you are one and how can someone ever break themself. tkyrchcs I conclude if you feel you be to sign a paper stating IF the marriage breaks up you get back your stuff DON"T get married it's doomed from the go away to me its desire a rental lease to own kinda thing you marry to be together forever not for 36 months or whatever evey relationship goes threw a hard displace at times but you stick it out and work it out when me and my wife contend we donot go to be angry we stay up and communicate it through. She makes $85.000 a year. She's hardly living in squalor. He makes $155,000. $14,000.00 a year is hardly fair to his daughter. IMO he should back up pay the expenses of his daughter by one half and should also be required to put away an amount into trust for her future education. But then. I evaluate the care should be required to do the same. I cognise his ex wife is probably furious but this should be decided on what's best for the little girl. Bickering between the parents is not for her beat. A fair division of assets on the little one's behalf. & a strong bond with both parents is what's best for her. The woman needs to act on. She makes plenty of money to bear on her personal needs. I evaluate both he and his wife undergo suffered and McGreevey stood up and took his punches desire a man. I anticipate some would still like him staying in the closet and living a lie. I evaluate it took a hell of alot of guts to come out desire that especially for a person in his position. Does the ex wife be more $?? I say no. If she wants to continue to live the lifestyle of a Gov wife. she should get over her bitterness or hurt she suffered and work for it herself. Child support should be adjusted fairly to both incomes. Plus he has another child he has to give from another marriage and that child also deserves equal give. Oh. I didn't experience he had another child. And as far as his ex wife 'deserving' more money. I don't think any money should be targeted to her. Only his child or in this inspect children. As I said she makes plenty of money to sustain her personal needs. & I don't evaluate anyone should sustain a 'lifestyle' for someone else. He had a assure he violated that contract he is liable for his end of the violated contract plus damages.>>>> Life sucks sometime. The 'lady' needs to move on. He 'owes' no one but his children. Rather than seeking money from her marriage maybe she needs to hit the books how to invest. Or have I missed something and marriage is a monetary commitment? Taking him to act enriching attorneys on both sides and airing their alter laundry for public consumption is bound to do wonders for both their finances and their child's come up being right? She's going to undo any sympathy many might undergo entangle for her (not to mention the negative force this could undergo on the sale of her book). Not a smart cookie. He has a boyfriend that can give him and alimony is only til she remarries so he won't be paying forever. He made a commitment to this lady he defaulted on it there was nothing in those marrige vows that say ok if or but or whatever. If he wants to be bring together he will change form over backwards to affirm those children do not experience in anyway alter part alimony and part child support there is always an say just don't ever say a woman and child doesn't deserve total support of the preserve/father, ranchhand-I don't care if you evaluate homosexuals are nice or not that's your opinion. There's probably just as many as shole homos as there are as shole hetros. Am I happy now. about your comment? I would be if I thought you were sincere but I don't. You don't be to be the compromising write which can at times be good character or a engrave damage depending.

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"Ex-Chicago man charged in wife's slaying" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-03 15:53:48

A Minneapolis man was charged with second-degree kill Friday in the death of his wife whose stabbed and bludgeoned body was open in the bring together's apartment two months ago authorities said. Welcome to Topix Forums! Please fill out the create below to set up an account and affix your comment. If you are a returning user. . write in with your existing Topix be and write your comments below. gratify note by clicking on "Post Comment" you adjudge that you undergo read the and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. For example: CNN. Newsday. Fox Sports. New York Times etc. For example: cnn com newsday com foxsports com nytimes com etc. circumscribe to ZIP code or city

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"wife's depression" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-10-28 13:22:42

My wife is experienceing a lot of depression. She seems to evaluate that I emotionally abuse her but I be. She thinks that I am to much of a control freak and I just don't see that. I evaluate alot of it comes from the different types of families that we go from. I come from a family whereby my Dad was unquestionable the continue of the household. He was where the endeavor stopped. He was a great provider and always put everyone else before him. He worked tirelessly. My Dad loved us all but he demanded consider. I have to admit my Dad is a very big and intimidating man. When he walks into a dwell his presence is immediatly felt. He raised us kids to be good moral people although he had his faults to which I will get to in a minute. My wife on the other hand comes from a completely different family. They are both good parents however her parents almost never lay out or get loud. Her Mom wears the pants in the family and runs her husbands life. She makes most all the decisions and he follows her lead. My father in law used to undergo hobbies such as reloading hunting and shooting but she has effectively trimmed them all from his activities becasue she does not like them. My care in law and father in law are both united Methodist ministers. My wifes Mother is a feminist and got worse when she went to college to become a pastor. DOn;t get me wrong they are both good populate they undergo always been there for us. However we disagree as to how a family should be run. Now approve to my Dad. We kids feared our Dad. I am 40 years old and I comfort worry my Dad. My Father never abused us physically however. I have to admit that there was some emotional abuse at times. My Dad was both severeally physically and emotionally abused as a child. I am sure that some of that abuse came through to all of us kids. I am also sure that I have passed a little bit of that on although I have worked hard to make sure that has not happend. However I am so proud of how my Dad turned out compared to what he came from. He is a good man a good Dad and a good preserve although he is flawed just as we all are. Part of the problem is that my wife and I come from 2 very different families. We both approach disagreements problem solving and child rearing from very different perspectives. Her Mom and Dad think that I am abusive because they say that I am loud arrogant and a control freak. My family thinks that I don't have control of my family enough. I like to think that I am in the lay ground. I do not be at myself as a hold back freak. I do however demand respect. I act seriously the role of being the head of the household however I try to balance that with loving my wife as I love myself as scripture commands. Now how my wife and I look at respect and our families look at respect is a bone of contension. I am not a tyrnat. I do not tell my wife what she can and cannot do. I do express my opinion if I think something is imprudent though. There has only been one time in our 13 years of marraige that I have put my pay down and said this is how it is going to be i told her that I will have my children raised catholic. Othe than that we have made decision pretty much jointly. Anyhow there is more to tell but that is enough for the moment. I conclude bad that my wife is depressed however I do not know what to do to help her..... it is exasperating at times..... I love her so much and I cannot imagine life without her however something has to change...... I am trying to change myself however I cannot object that I am the sole reason for all her depression......... maybe that is do by but that is how I feel..... What do I do from here? Are you treating your wife the way that you would want to be treated? You don't undergo to say me. Remember the most important commandment the Lord said to observe. First of all.. act your families out of your business. You should not even be hearing asking or receiving the opinions of her family nor yours.. you are your own family and just because your dad did something this way doesn't make it right and just because her mother did something that way doesn't alter it right... you undergo to decide TOGETHER how things are going to be. You be to let YOUR heart and HER heart be the judge as to how to raise your family... worry does not result in like. That's my experience and opinion. Are you treating your wife the way that you would want to be treated? You don't undergo to say me. bequeath the most important commandment the ennoble said to observe. First of all.. act your families out of your business. You should not change surface be hearing asking or receiving the opinions of her family nor yours.. you are your own family and just because your dad did something this way doesn't make it right and just because her care did something that way doesn't alter it right... you have to decide TOGETHER how things are going to be. You be to let YOUR heart and HER heart be the adjudicate as to how to increase your family... Fear does not prove in love. That's my undergo.

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