A single woman out on a private cloud
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-17 21:03:04
"Conceived and raised in the United States. Carrie [Bradshaw] may still see New York as a spiritual domiciliate. But today you can find her in cities across Europe. Asia and North America. Seek out the trendy shoe stores in abduct. Berlin. Singapore. Seoul and Dublin and you’ll see crowds of single young females (SYFs) in their twenties and thirties who spend their hours working their abs and their careers sipping cocktails dancing at clubs and (breathe) talking about relationships. Sex and the City has gone global; the SYF world is now flat."
The bind looks at how the globalization of this "single young female" reflects a series of demographic and economic shifts that are pointing many of us toward this so-called "New Girl Order." The trends of delayed marriage expanded higher education do work compel participation and urbanization combined with global media and a little disposable income mean that we can say goodbye to many of the limitations that were put on previous generations of women. I think that the main thing is that we have a choice. At 26 years old if I had found the great love of my life and entangle ready to settle drink with him. I would undergo no reservations about doing so. For me,it's not a case of forgoing marriage in favour of endless girls' nights out and spending all of my hard earned dollars on myself. It's about there being an alternative. I undergo happily married friends with enviable lives and they still undergo no shortage of quality girl time. However. I should also be feeling good about what I undergo and celebrate being young and happy. alter now. I am focusing on building my career cultivating friendships and living the life that I have dreamed of living. Most importantly. I am trying to figure out just who I am and what I want out of life. Characters like Carrie Bradshaw inform me that I'm not a loser to be single at 26. There is no longer such a stigma attached to being single after a certain age. The terms "spinster"and ''old maid" are not thrown around as much as they may have been at one measure. I can still have a rich beat life change surface though I haven't open my soul conjoin yet.
"The lifestyle also means whole new realms of leisure and consumption often enjoyed with a group of close girlfriends: trendy cafés and bars serving sweetish coffee concoctions and cocktails; fancy boutiques malls and emporiums hawking cosmetics handbags shoes and $100-plus buttock-hugging jeans; gyms for toning and male-watching; ski resorts andbeach hotels; and everywhere the frustrating hunt for a boyfriend and though it’s an ever more vexing subject a husband."
Hi JenniWell. I thought this was the perfect post for my first comment on your Blog. I a 27 year old female could not agree more with your opinions of being a single independent woman. I've been single for many years now and I've used this measure to get to know myself inside and out. During this time I've become much more grounded and balanced than ever. I've accomplished so many things in my life that I never would have the courage to do had I never taken the time to be alone. For me it means so much more than girls nights out shopping and seeking out the right man. It's about discovering yourself your goals dreams and aspirations. It's about figuring out who you are as a person you're own individuality and learning to love yourself both the good and the bad. It's then that you will cater your soulmate the person that will love you unconditionally because you love yourself. I truly believe that two people cannot connect and form a relationship if neither of them are "whole" as a person on their own. Some people are lucky enough to meet their soulmate early in life others are meant to follow a different path one that requires some soul searching before giving yourself to another person. Single ladies out there embrace this time and act a deep look inside. I guarantee you ordain find one truly amazing woman that you love for all eternity. Great writing Jenni. Jess.
I love this affix Jenni. Especially being a single 26 year old myself and coming to the reality that my future might not be working out the way I had planned but I am learning and enjoying and experiencing more than i ever thought possible. These are the things that make us strong and able to handle whatever is thrown our way. May that be a boyfriend family or change surface just a life measure of travelling girlfriends and a good book. As my Nana says "Boys are like buses there is one every ten minutes" and I intend to test out our go across system for awhile before I sight or commit to a bus that is going to take me where I need to go. [ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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